I want to say something first. I don't really 'hate' anyone. I hate things they do, I hate the way they act, I hate who they are now, not them as a whole.
It seems odd that I'm writing this one the day after Christmas. Just doesn't seem fitting. I have a schedule to follow. Well there are a few people who I dislike for certain reasons. I don't want to single people out, so instead I will write about reason's I may dislike someone.
I may dislike you if...
You have a huge ego. I admit there are times that I think highly of myself, or at least seem to. Generally its overcompensation. I can't stand when people think extremely highly of them self and vocalize it. You may think you're the best, but I don't want to hear about it.
You assume you are liked, you are favored or you'll automatically be chosen for something prestigious. This goes with a big ego. Those girls who assume any guy who blinks at them is in love with them...OBNOXIOUS. Those people who assume they don't have to work for something and will automatically get it because of favoritism, age, or because they think they're great... That is why I love it when justice is served and the one who works hardest gets to be top dog.
You crave attention. There are those people who will do anything for attention. They'll even go for negative attention. Dressing like a prostitute, being extremely (and fake-ly) loud, and bragging all fall under this category.
You Like Drama. This sort of goes with craving attention. There are those people who are so nosy, lie to start crap, talk about others constantly and get involved in drama that isn't theirs... Its just stupidity in my mind.
You are immature. I can't stand obvious stupidity and plain old immaturity. If everyone would act their age and learn a thing or two, things would be ok.
I'm not saying that I instantly dislike you for having one or more of these qualities.
I'm not saying that I've never demonstrated any of these attributes. I'm guilty, we all are.
I'm simply choosing to write about attributes rather than a letter singling someone out and blatantly saying "You suck." There isn't one single person I dislike most and no one deserves to be written about negatively online.
I'm glad to get this letter out of the way. Hope next week is a bit more positive.
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